House Cleaning Tune Up
House cleaning ought to be easy, but, it drives many
people crazy with frustration. If you are
wondering how to fix your current house cleaning
program, consider using Maidomatic's five step program:
- Give up the Guilt: House Cleaning Troubles are
the Rule Today
- Understand that House Cleaning Requires Performance
in Many Disciplines
- Choose an Improvement Strategy that Fits Your
Goals and Situation
- Do the Work: That's How to Get It Faster
and Easier
- Periodically Re-evaluate and Change Your House
Cleaning Program
STEP 1: Give up the Guilt: House Cleaning
Troubles are the Rule Today
You should stop feeling any guilt
at all about your house cleaning program. Lot's
of people have problems with house cleaning today
and for obvious reasons.
Forty years of liberation-speak, high
divorce rates, and dual-career families have disrupted
the transmission of house cleaning skills from generation
to generation. Many people truly don’t know what
to do anymore which is a shame: It is a lot easier
to practice a set of habits than to develop a new set
of habits.
Other factors are also stacking the deck
against homemakers. Just to name a few, larger
homes, more active children's schedules, and boatloads
of inexpensive goods courtesy of Walmart and the Red
Chinese have increased the house cleaning workload even
as the time available has shrunk.
Guilt is a poor way to motivate
yourself. Instead, see your house cleaning
program as nothing more than a set of habits and
routines which, with a little effort, can be fixed
up by anyone. As the old song says, ". . . you
need to . . . accent the positive."
STEP 2: Understand that House Cleaning Requires
Performance in Many Disciplines
Once you have adopted a positive
attitude it becomes time to figure out what to apply
all your energies to. If you were suffering
from guilt, you may have been thinking that you just
needed to work harder. But, that's not the
case. In fact, it is both more complicated and
easier than that.
It's more complicated than that
because there are a surprisingly broad range of
skills and behaviors involved in and having an
impact on a house cleaning program. And, to
really make progress, the full scope of skills, time
expenditures, and family member behaviors need to be aligned
with the house cleaning program's goals and approach.
Here's an image to carry around: In a properly functioning house cleaning
program:
- Every member of the family has a role to play
and plays his or her role with skill and determination
- The head house cleaner—usually mom--has a disciplined,
efficient set of house cleaning routines. She
takes charge of organizing rooms and storage spaces,
tutors children and spouses in proper personal habits,
and serves as the resident interior design expert
- Other members of the family make their own beds, pick
up their own clothes, tidy their own rooms, clean up
any messes they make, particularly in public spaces,
and do their house cleaning chores according to an agreed
schedule. They also don't stuff their rooms full
of every toy, game, or trinket they have ever fancied
- There's little to no clutter
- Rooms are well organized
- Ultimately, the
condition of the home is made to reflect both the efficiency
of the house cleaning program and the family's lifestyle.
The scope of a house cleaning
program can seem daunting if your program isn't
working, but, even with all the different factors
involved, this is something that humans--that means
your spouse, your kids, etc.--can handle.
They just need to be put to work. And, once
the entire family has been put to work, it will be
easier because you'll have the power of the entire
team on your side.
STEP 3: Develop an Improvement Plan that Fits
Your Goals and Situation
Given all the roles and disciplines,
it should be no surprise that, when there's a problem
with house cleaning, it can feel like you're fixing
Humpty-Dumpty. Where do you start? Do you
just need to work harder? Do you need a different
house cleaning routine? Is clutter the problem?
Lack of space or storage? Family member behavior?
Your morale? All of the above?
You really do need
to know what to focus on first. Looking for
ideas in magazines or web sites can help, but, are
often far too generic to fit your situation.
In fact, this is a topic which Maidomatic is
trying to address with our Cleaning Strategizer
utility.
With just a couple of questions, the Cleaning
Strategizer seeks to narrow down what you should
focus on to one or two topics at a time. Press the button below to get to the on-line version
of the Cleaning Strategizer:
If you would like other ideas on
what to focus on first, see our article on how the
Cleaning Strategizer works:
Behind the Model.
STEP 4: Do the work: That's How to Get
It Faster and Easier
If you have a reasonable improvement
plan, then it is time to just do the work. Regular
repetition of a routine is a sure-fire way to convert
any routine into a habit so that, while it is still
work, it becomes easier to perform, even unconscious
on your part. That is how people who make house
cleaning look easy do it: They do not agonize
over the work, rather they follow a suitable routine and
let the power of the routine and habit
guide them to the results they want.
STEP 5: Periodically Re-evaluate and Change
Your House Cleaning Program
As new habits take hold and problems
are addressed, your circumstances and aspirations will
evolve. Other factors such as job changes and
the age of your children may affect your goals.
Regardless, it is important to view the house cleaning
program as a constant work in progress. Periodically,
you'll want to re-evaluate
your goals and circumstances.
What you should have learned in
House Cleaning 101 is this: